Should You Fake An Orgasm
By rodrigo rehn
When you first start sleeping with someone you are much more forgiving of a not so good sex and you may not want to appear not to enjoy the sexual experience so you may be tempted to fake the all important orgasm. This is something that a lot of women do early on in a relationship hoping that the next experience will be better. What do you do though when the sex doesn't get any better, do you just keep faking your orgasm?
Generally speaking, faking an orgasm isn't a good idea. The most straight forward reason that you should not fake an orgasm is because it's not honest. You may want to make the person feel good, but why should you lie about your enjoyment? If you fake the orgasm you are allowing the other person to think that what they did was just right for you and they will likely continue to do the same thing every time you have sex, assuming that it works.
When you fake an orgasm you are pretty much guaranteeing that it won't get any better. When a woman has an orgasm in a certain position or at a certain time or with certain stimulation a man takes note and he will likely repeat the process again in the future. If you fake it he will take note of when you had an "orgasm" and he will simply continue to repeat the moves that didn't work for you the first time, why would you want that?
So, if you're not going to fake it, what do you do? Nothing! If the guy asks if you had an orgasm you can tell him no. You don't have to be rude but you can tell him why it did not work for you and what you want to try next time.
You need to be sure to let him know that you want to be close, because many men will simply shut down if he thinks you didn't enjoy the experience at all or that you do not want to be with him again. Let them know if they ask that you didn't have an orgasm but that it wasn't his fault, you just need to try some new things together.
Faking an orgasm is never a good idea! It will likely just guarantee that the sex won't get better and eventually you will have to tell him that what he is doing isn't working for you and you may even have to tell him that you have been faking it. Isn't it easier just to admit that it wasn't working for you and then work together to have better sex in the future?
About the author
Rodrigo Rehn is a Relationships Expert, Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance online dating for singles. from http://www.FreeArticlesAndContent.com
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