A Bridesmaid's Responsibilities
By Budda Oliver
Many women find themselves in the title of bridesmaid more than once in their lives. It seems that such a role would require the same responsibilities and expectations at each event. However, it is important to understand and remember that each bride expects different things out of their bridesmaids.
If you have agreed to be a bridesmaid in a wedding, get ready for a bit of work on your part. Attempt to immediately anticipate the needs and wishes of the particular woman whose wedding you will be a part of. Should you feel that too much is expected of you, it is imperative that you respectfully drop out of the wedding party many months in advance. That way, the bride has plenty of time to adjust her plans accordingly.
Once you are committed to being a bridesmaid, prepare yourself for a variety of pre-wedding events. These include, but are not limited to, helping the wife-to-be shop for her wedding dress, shopping for bridesmaid dresses, selecting the flowers, helping plan the reception, and assisting in keeping track of guests and their arrivals. Some brides may ask for help with finding invitations, filling them out, addressing them, and mailing them.
Often times, the bridesmaids or the maid of honor will be responsible for organizing a bachelorette party. This event is a good time to have fun and kick back before the big day, but it is important to consult with the bride while planning it. Tastes can differ in such an event, and the bride's wishes must be taken into account. For instance, some bachelorette parties might take the form of a simple brunch at a nice restaurant, while others might include a night of eating, drinking, and dancing. The bride's comfort and preference should dictate the style of party.
It is important to understand right away that traditionally, bridesmaids are responsible for the purchase of their dress. Unfortunately, the prices of the dresses are completely dependent on what the bride has chosen. Prices can go from as little as $100 to as much as $1000 or more. Hopefully the wife-to-be takes price into consideration when choosing her bridesmaid dresses, however she can't always account for the price of alterations, adjustments, and shoes. If you know that cost will pose a problem for you, it is important to notify the bride before she chooses a dress. That way, she can either consciously choose an inexpensive dress, or give you the option of not participating in the wedding party.
Most importantly, a bridesmaid acts as a friend and a source of comfort to the wife-to-be. It is not your day or your event, but you are an integral part in it. Stress-levels are always high, and it is imperative to keep your cool, thus helping the bride keep hers.
About the author
Mr. Oliver is a marketing agent of Bride and Groom Planner. The wedding resource guide provides wedding planning and resources in a variety of cities and states throughout the nation. For more information on their Wedding Planning and Resources please visit their website. from http://www.FreeArticlesAndContent.com
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